so yesterday, my husband gets out of bed and eats breakfast.
then, he comes back over to me and at this point, he doesn't even tell me to get out of bed and get ready for the meeting anymore.
instead, he asked me if i wanted to go.
I didn't read anything that suggested him divorcing you.
His response is quite typical, he's heard somethings from you that might have shocked and been confusing to hear
about the WTS. and now he has to find an answer for all of this. Quite normal really.
Unfortunately the answer he'll receive will be pre-scripted by an indoctrinated JWS so don't expect any good results.
so yesterday, my husband gets out of bed and eats breakfast.
then, he comes back over to me and at this point, he doesn't even tell me to get out of bed and get ready for the meeting anymore.
instead, he asked me if i wanted to go.
Quite frankly I think its eventually going to get spilled out to one or more of the elders in your own hall.
With you not showing up at the meetings and your husband having to answer why you are not there, something usually gets spilled out
perhaps not directly to an elder but to some other witness. There just so many times that saying she's not feeling well can last.
Isn't the DFing for thinking out of the box the reason you want to exit this religion.
This religion as you know corrupts within and spoils healthy human relationships on so many levels.
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
Thanks for the info aSphere, both interest and sick.
It really wasn't mentioned what he actual did for a living at least I never caught anything.
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
A little more insight on the case........
By TAMMY J. McCOY
The Press-Enterprise
A Murrieta man charged with murder for financial gain was not making mortgage payments at the time authorities say he purchased $1 million in life insurance on his wife, who died a few weeks later, county records show.
Kelle Lee Jarka could face the death penalty or life in prison if convicted of the April slaying of Isabelle Jarka, his 40- year-old wife and the mother of two.
County records show Kelle Jarka was notified between February and June that his Tamarisk Street house was going into foreclosure and he owed the state nearly $30,000 in taxes and fees.
In early April, he bought life insurance policies worth more than $1 million on his wife, Isabelle, according to Murrieta police. She was bludgeoned to death a few weeks later, on April 28, in the master bedroom with her infant son nearby, police say.
Jarka's attorney, Mark Johnson, said money problems were nothing new for the Jarkas, and it certainly was not the reason for Isabelle Jarka's demise.
"They had been living on the edge financially for years," Johnson said. "I just don't think this was a murder for financial gain."
The Jarkas lived beyond their means, Johnson said. The couple had an expensive boat, a nice house and many creature comforts.
They also had each other, he said.
"They seem to have a loving relationship," Johnson said.
The defense attorney noted that he has taken a personal interest in this case because of the people involved.
"Both of them were good people," he said.
Prosecutor Burke Strunsky declined to comment.
Public records show that bill collectors and notices about Kelle Jarka's debts were coming to the Murrieta home in the weeks and months before Isabelle Jarka's death.
$29,000 Owed to State
Kelle Jarka owed the state $29,141 in incomes taxes and fees from 2005, according to a Feb. 29 notice of a state tax lien filed with the Riverside County recorder's office.
The mortgage went unpaid in March, April and May, according to county records.
Kelle Jarka was notified that foreclosure proceedings were under way and he was behind on his payments by $24,779, according to county records filed in June. The house was in his name alone, the records show.
In November, a credit card company sued Kelle Jarka for failing to pay more than $11,000, according to court records. The company wanted the courts to enforce an arbitrator's decision ordering Kelle Jarka to pay $10,500, the records show.
Riverside County District Attorney Rod Pacheco has not announced whether his office will pursue the death penalty.
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
Interesting theory Sixofnine,
Another thought is perhaps Kelle was getting so enraged of having his wife do a tell all about himself
in front of that other elder that she may have been the one that was keeping him there as a form
of protection from violence that he may have threated her with.
exhuse me????
whats wrong with showing off what you have and looking good?
why should i have to cover myself up al la muslim/jw stlye?
Its seen has being sexually enticing and provocative and realistically there are many Christian and non-Christian faiths that have the
same and even more so controls on dress for woman. There are a lot worse than the JWS.
This used to be a real problem back in the 60's and 70's when the mini skirts was popularized with young woman.
I can remember a few sisters getting called back to the Hall to have a chat with one or more elders.
There was one sister that I remember though that had quite a beautiful figure that I don't think she was a pioneer type
or gave talks but she'd showed up for about ever Sunday talk, young in her 20's well tanned, long blond hair big blue eyes the whole shebang.
I also remember trying to sit close to her whenever possible, this was of course to be close to the microphones, ....ahem
Strangely enough the elders left her alone
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
Yes those were very damaging in the case, along with life insurance polices totaling 1.3 million.
If he would have gotten away with it he would have been set for the rest of his life,
plus all the empathy from his own congregation and even the opportunity to marry one of those cute sisters
that were attending the hall.
yesterday, my wife and i was going for a walk in the neighborhood.
she was carrying my niece and commenting on how heavy she is.
i told her that apparently her sister has to carry her child, diaper bag, and her things to the bus stop every morning.
A simple answer to this would be C T Russell's self positioning and self marketing strategy that he was receiving spiritual light from god himself
and that he was offering this informative light to the rest of the world by use of his written publishings.
What the world really got was Russell's sales and marketing acumen. A self created modern prophet with a hidden agenda.
Analyzing the facts of how much of his own money and his fathers money was put into the WTS. its obvious he wasn't going to lose
it all to be sure, remember how hard he tried to keep his money away from his ex-wife is just a part of the story as well.
This supposedly important spiritual light continues on to this day by the pretentiously powerful leaders
of the WTS. .........unfortunately
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
Kicking in a door of that caliber would have made a great noise throughout the house, even to the upstairs bedroom.
I didn't catch that she was killed while lying in bed, it got that it was done in the en-suite of the master bedroom.
One thing that should be said when a person strikes multiply blows to the head of a person there would be blood splatters all over the
strikers face and hair, so the question gets posed where, when and how did he wash this blood off himself ?
There were no blood traces in a round the sinks of the house, unless he used a hose outside the house.
There were also no traces of blood inside his car, so if he wore a protective suit he'd have to wash off that as well.
has it been confirmed whether or not he was an active witness at the time of his crime?
can someone post the article making the statement to that effect?.
The little bits of information do tell of a tale of a marriage that had gone sour, why was that JW elder then there trying to patch things up
and why was he there for so long until very early in the morning. If he pre acknowledged his marriage was in a terrible state weeks prior he could have very
well planned this whole thing in advance. One thing that worthy of noting is men can get withdrawn emotionally with their spouses when a new born arrives,
its not just the no sex prior and after the birth its also the emotional connection that weakens. After hours of confrontation with the intervening elder
and not having a good night sleep, something triggered him in the morning to go on vengeful attack, especially after his wife spent hours exposing his
faults to that other elder, so he brought down his revenge like Jehovah on a Saturday night. ( Homey speculation )
